I watched the latest episode of Jon & Kate +8. It was sad. I wanted to reach through the TV screen and yell at them and squeeze their necks until they listened. "DON'T JUST BE THERE FOR YOUR KIDS...BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER!!!"
Being there for your kids is not going to bring any sort of healing or restoration to your marriage. You really want to be there for your kids? The BEST thing you can do for your kids.....FOCUS ON RESTORING YOUR MARRIAGE!!
It was sad to see them not get it. I hope they get it soon! I hope they will transfer their focus from the kids to each other. So many marriages get this priority WRONG! Your spouse and your marriage should come BEFORE your children.